"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Did I say the right thing question???

Chosen1

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I need critical analysis of an email I sent this chick through myspace. Yes, the same girl some of you guys said to leave alone in this post www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=178018. She says she wants to friends and sh!t which is cool. She is in a situation where her baby daddy is messing with a 15 year old girl. She still want to be with the man so I sent her this message.

"u no i'm still tryin 2 **** wit u if u still wanna creep wit me let me no. tryin 2 romance u take u and yo daughter out and I don't **** wit little girl if thats what u want give me a call when u get up here if not then thanks for the conversation"

That is what I wrote the women. Grammar is not the best at all but what do you guys think comes off as needy doesn't, it or what? Thanks for your answers
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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man, i checked out her myspace, she said it herself she is trying to play the game just like a man, of course she can't but thats beside the point. Just don't stress about this one she ain't nothing special. You didn't really seem that needy just letting her know what you want. Just don't let her use you as the doormat when things with her ex buckle because they surely will. Just put this one on the backburner and move on, remember your the one she needs to win not the other way around.
 

Mantis Toboggan

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Chosen1 said:
Yes, the same girl some of you guys said to leave alone in this post www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=178018.
You know what my advice is: You deserve exactly what you get in this situation. Obviously, I can't speak for the rest of the board, but I hope no one advises you anymore. There's absolutely nothing about this girl that's worthy of dating. Not her looks, not her life, nothing.

And your email sounds stupid. You're 25 and you're writing like a 14 year old in study hall.

Close thread.
 

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Mantis Toboggan said:
You know what my advice is: You deserve exactly what you get in this situation. Obviously, I can't speak for the rest of the board, but I hope no one advises you anymore. There's absolutely nothing about this girl that's worthy of dating. Not her looks, not her life, nothing.

And your email sounds stupid. You're 25 and you're writing like a 14 year old in study hall.

Close thread.
I don't know why I wrote like that. I can actually use some articulate grammar when I want. I agree with you wholeheartedly that she has nothing really going for that's what I want but not what I really need. Anyways I'll take this info you mantis and thunder gave me and I will move the F on thanks.
 
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