“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Did I react well?

AverageHero

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This guy came in, (an acquaintance) and asked for a drink from me in the bar I work in. He started to chat to the chick that I like who I work with while I was serving him. After giving me the exact money for the drink he said 'Keep the change'..in a cheeky tone, basically trying to put me down in front of that girl to make himself look good or powerful.

I told him that there was no change in an equally smart tone. Afterwards, he came up and tried to say goodbye (in front of chick). I asked him if he'd also let me keep the change later in an antagonistic manner. He started laughing, and said he couldn't take me seriously. I replied 'ditto'. He said goodbye and I said nothing. Male workmate asked me in front of chick if I knew him - I replied 'yes, from school, he's a loser', when loser had left.

The b*stard will try and say sorry (I know his type) - I will make him do it public (facebook) if he wants to apologise. Otherwise he was trying a power play in front of a girl I work with to look good, to my detriment.

Did I deal with him correctly?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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well judging by his IOI's I say no.
 

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PokerStar said:
well judging by his IOI's I say no.
I don't see what you're talking about.

OP: It seems like a snarky and effective putdown but you tell us whether it worked or not. What are the results?
 

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it was sarcasm.

to be honest OP, you shouldnt be treating customers like that, even if he was being a douchebag.

sounds like your emotions got the best of you. remember only a playa pimp doesnt let things affect him. even if it was a b*tch ass customer trying to look good infront other women.
 

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Believe you're the great catch. Know that you're better than the douche, and your actions will speak the same. If he was trying to look cool in front of this bird, odds are she knew what he was doing. Women actually know a lot, they just pretend not to. Because he was trying to look cool, she wouldn't really get with him (if she's the right type of girl). You had nothing to worry about. Just play it cool next time knowing chicks don't go for guys who try too hard. Like what Mr. Douche was clearly doing.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why did you ****block your acquantance?
 
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