Glassguy
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Absolutely. You'll be surprised what happens when you truly have an IDGAF attitude. They will chase.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Did I over react?
- Thread starter way2smart
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
UPDATE:
Something incredibly unthinkable happened. She reached out, she apologized, I asked her out for another date.
The date went incredibly well. At the end of the date we went back to my place, I escalated like crazy, took all her clothes off.... then she tells me that she is a VIRGIN.
Anyway, I didn't want to push her for sex tonight. I massaged her c*lit and made her come but I didn't penetrate. I will save that for later.
Really what an incredible surprise. I can't possibly understand how a hot HB 9 can still be a virgin at the age of 25?
Whew, what a day!
Something incredibly unthinkable happened. She reached out, she apologized, I asked her out for another date.
The date went incredibly well. At the end of the date we went back to my place, I escalated like crazy, took all her clothes off.... then she tells me that she is a VIRGIN.
Anyway, I didn't want to push her for sex tonight. I massaged her c*lit and made her come but I didn't penetrate. I will save that for later.
Really what an incredible surprise. I can't possibly understand how a hot HB 9 can still be a virgin at the age of 25?
Whew, what a day!