"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

Did I over react?

Glassguy

Moderator
Joined
Apr 25, 2016
Messages
4,789
Reaction score
8,861
Age
49
Maybe it is, maybe it isn't. Honestly I don't care. In the end for me it's more important to have my respect rather than reach out.
Absolutely. You'll be surprised what happens when you truly have an IDGAF attitude. They will chase.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

way2smart

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 20, 2014
Messages
298
Reaction score
75
UPDATE:

Something incredibly unthinkable happened. She reached out, she apologized, I asked her out for another date.
The date went incredibly well. At the end of the date we went back to my place, I escalated like crazy, took all her clothes off.... then she tells me that she is a VIRGIN.

Anyway, I didn't want to push her for sex tonight. I massaged her c*lit and made her come but I didn't penetrate. I will save that for later.

Really what an incredible surprise. I can't possibly understand how a hot HB 9 can still be a virgin at the age of 25?

Whew, what a day!
 
Top