"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DID I over react??? LTR - Need some thoughts !
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You were wrong to swear at her, loose your cool, and say \ act mad even in an email. In her email back, she came back fighting, she was not apologetic.
If it had been me, talking about it quickly over the phone to sort it out ( even with a small cost) would be worth it. You;ve been seeing her 3 years after all ! whether she's lying or not, you did not deal with this great, and it sounds like you've hurt her. When she lets you down, there;s no need to hurt her, just stay in control, be calm and let her know whats what - put her straight about whats acceptable and whats not. easy isnt it?
now your ass is on the line too, when it should have only been hers.
Do you trust her? sounds like your suspicious. A good way to see if she can be trsusted is if she has cheated on any of her previous boyfriends.
Yes you overreacted. You could fix this in 2 seconds by just admitting it and saying sorry.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.