"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Did I miss an opportunity

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I have had memberships with other gyms before where a Fitness trainer trys to get me to sign up with them. A few months ago , I ran into a new trainer at a gym that I no longer go to. She was a gorgeous Redhead. Of course I knew she was trying to sign me up with training sessions, but she did one thing I have never had a trainer to do before. She wrote down her Personal cell number on her business card. At the time, I never thought anything more then she was trying to make a sale. A co worker tells me she was interested. After he said it, I got to thinking that I have never had a trainer to offer out their personal cell out to me.

Did this amount to anything? I know its water under the bridge regardless. but if I did miss something here, I dont want to do it again.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do you still have her number? Call her then! Who cares if has been a few months.
 
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Her co-worker or your co-worker?? "Fitness trainer" personal one-on-one lessons??
 
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Blown Opportunity

I happen to mention it to one of my co workers. He said she was interested in me , otherwise she would have gave me just the main gym # and her hours available.
 
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leeman67 said:
I happen to mention it to one of my co workers. He said she was interested in me , otherwise she would have gave me just the main gym # and her hours available.
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Yes, this is as sign of interest -- however sales people may be desperate to meet a quota - if she wasn't in sales it would be a clearer signal.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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