"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Did I miss an opportunity

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I have had memberships with other gyms before where a Fitness trainer trys to get me to sign up with them. A few months ago , I ran into a new trainer at a gym that I no longer go to. She was a gorgeous Redhead. Of course I knew she was trying to sign me up with training sessions, but she did one thing I have never had a trainer to do before. She wrote down her Personal cell number on her business card. At the time, I never thought anything more then she was trying to make a sale. A co worker tells me she was interested. After he said it, I got to thinking that I have never had a trainer to offer out their personal cell out to me.

Did this amount to anything? I know its water under the bridge regardless. but if I did miss something here, I dont want to do it again.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do you still have her number? Call her then! Who cares if has been a few months.
 
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Her co-worker or your co-worker?? "Fitness trainer" personal one-on-one lessons??
 
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Blown Opportunity

I happen to mention it to one of my co workers. He said she was interested in me , otherwise she would have gave me just the main gym # and her hours available.
 
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leeman67 said:
I happen to mention it to one of my co workers. He said she was interested in me , otherwise she would have gave me just the main gym # and her hours available.
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Yes, this is as sign of interest -- however sales people may be desperate to meet a quota - if she wasn't in sales it would be a clearer signal.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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