"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Did I miss an opportunity

leeman67

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I have had memberships with other gyms before where a Fitness trainer trys to get me to sign up with them. A few months ago , I ran into a new trainer at a gym that I no longer go to. She was a gorgeous Redhead. Of course I knew she was trying to sign me up with training sessions, but she did one thing I have never had a trainer to do before. She wrote down her Personal cell number on her business card. At the time, I never thought anything more then she was trying to make a sale. A co worker tells me she was interested. After he said it, I got to thinking that I have never had a trainer to offer out their personal cell out to me.

Did this amount to anything? I know its water under the bridge regardless. but if I did miss something here, I dont want to do it again.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cancerian

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Do you still have her number? Call her then! Who cares if has been a few months.
 
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Her co-worker or your co-worker?? "Fitness trainer" personal one-on-one lessons??
 

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Blown Opportunity

I happen to mention it to one of my co workers. He said she was interested in me , otherwise she would have gave me just the main gym # and her hours available.
 
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leeman67 said:
I happen to mention it to one of my co workers. He said she was interested in me , otherwise she would have gave me just the main gym # and her hours available.
Yes, this is as sign of interest -- however sales people may be desperate to meet a quota - if she wasn't in sales it would be a clearer signal.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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