Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Did I miss an opportunity here?

Kourt

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Well, after a few months of sosuave I have changed my ways of afcness and I just realized that my old afc self may have totally missed an opportunity with a hb8. Looking back in my last year's year book I found this year book sig, it read:

Hey Kourt,
Thanks for being such a
great friend, it was great
getting to know you better
at work & school. Your a <---- we suck at
great person, have a salads haha
good summer & see you
next year!
- <3 - (her name)

and then in smaller letters she wrote

call me
if you want
sometime
123-4567

We work at the same restauant and we made salads together, hence "we suck at salads haha" just to clear things up
Now that I think about it, she gave me her # without my asking, and writing it in my year book instead of just giving it to me, and writing in smaller print may be a sign of insecurity.
Maybe this isnt a missed opportunity, and I could still hit the # up and be like hey was looking through my yearbook and found your # so I decided to give you a call, and then ask her out. ¿Who knows? lol
Maybe I'm just reading into things to much, but mby not. Opinions, comments, questions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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could have been a missed oppurtunity, but ur window might have closed by now if it was a chance.

its hard to say without knowlege about ur relationship up until then.
 

Kourt

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true dat!!! :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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shy

yes, you did.
maybe it meant that she was just a bit shy cuz maybe youmight have been giving her mixed signals. hence the small size.

wel, just get with her and just have fun. start from there.
 

Kourt

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sounds good to me
 

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phone her, u wont lose out, its jsut another option
 
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Anytime a girl gives out her phone number it is for good reason - she wants the man to call her. Call her to 'catch-up' on things and tell her you would like to take her out for a soup and salad:)
 
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