"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Did I miss an opportunity here?

Kourt

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Well, after a few months of sosuave I have changed my ways of afcness and I just realized that my old afc self may have totally missed an opportunity with a hb8. Looking back in my last year's year book I found this year book sig, it read:

Hey Kourt,
Thanks for being such a
great friend, it was great
getting to know you better
at work & school. Your a <---- we suck at
great person, have a salads haha
good summer & see you
next year!
- <3 - (her name)

and then in smaller letters she wrote

call me
if you want
sometime
123-4567

We work at the same restauant and we made salads together, hence "we suck at salads haha" just to clear things up
Now that I think about it, she gave me her # without my asking, and writing it in my year book instead of just giving it to me, and writing in smaller print may be a sign of insecurity.
Maybe this isnt a missed opportunity, and I could still hit the # up and be like hey was looking through my yearbook and found your # so I decided to give you a call, and then ask her out. ¿Who knows? lol
Maybe I'm just reading into things to much, but mby not. Opinions, comments, questions?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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chimps_rule

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could have been a missed oppurtunity, but ur window might have closed by now if it was a chance.

its hard to say without knowlege about ur relationship up until then.
 

Kourt

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true dat!!! :D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJ Alejandro

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shy

yes, you did.
maybe it meant that she was just a bit shy cuz maybe youmight have been giving her mixed signals. hence the small size.

wel, just get with her and just have fun. start from there.
 

Kourt

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sounds good to me
 

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phone her, u wont lose out, its jsut another option
 
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Anytime a girl gives out her phone number it is for good reason - she wants the man to call her. Call her to 'catch-up' on things and tell her you would like to take her out for a soup and salad:)
 
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