"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Did I make mistake in online email messaging?

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Ok I will put messages in sequences, as they happened, with timing...


Her first mail...yesterday night...
I read your profile and I really enjoyed what I read :)

My profile isn't that interesting to read, I never really know what I should write.

I did find alot of things in your profile very interesting.I appreciate your values and I think we could have some really great coversations.

Take a look at my very tiny profile and let me know what you think :)

My message, at 12:00 today..
Hey there, how are you?

I got your message, and after looking at your profile, you have a way of telling a lot in a few words. Still, I'd like to learn more about you.



message from her, at 2:00 today...

Hey :)

what would you like to know :)



my message, at 4:30:
hey there, ok here's my MSN, lets chat:

xxxxxxxxxx



Right now its 7:30, I haven't gotten back reply yet, so did I make some mistake or should I just keep my patience?

Should I do something? or just stay pat?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Canadien said:
Ok I will put messages in sequences, as they happened, with timing...


Her first mail...yesterday night...
I read your profile and I really enjoyed what I read :)

My profile isn't that interesting to read, I never really know what I should write.

I did find alot of things in your profile very interesting.I appreciate your values and I think we could have some really great coversations.

Take a look at my very tiny profile and let me know what you think :)

My message, at 12:00 today..
Hey there, how are you?

I got your message, and after looking at your profile, you have a way of telling a lot in a few words. Still, I'd like to learn more about you.



message from her, at 2:00 today...

Hey :)

what would you like to know :)



my message, at 4:30:
hey there, ok here's my MSN, lets chat:

xxxxxxxxxx



Right now its 7:30, I haven't gotten back reply yet, so did I make some mistake or should I just keep my patience?

Should I do something? or just stay pat?

It's probably a dude. I wouldn't sweat it if you don't get a message back.
 

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but was

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It's probably a dude. I wouldn't sweat it if you don't get a message back.

it too aggresive asking her to join on MSN chat?

my friends at job told me that, it would be best to chat on MSN, that why I went that route, is there anyway to turn this around?
 
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