"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Did I make mistake in online email messaging?

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Ok I will put messages in sequences, as they happened, with timing...


Her first mail...yesterday night...
I read your profile and I really enjoyed what I read :)

My profile isn't that interesting to read, I never really know what I should write.

I did find alot of things in your profile very interesting.I appreciate your values and I think we could have some really great coversations.

Take a look at my very tiny profile and let me know what you think :)

My message, at 12:00 today..
Hey there, how are you?

I got your message, and after looking at your profile, you have a way of telling a lot in a few words. Still, I'd like to learn more about you.



message from her, at 2:00 today...

Hey :)

what would you like to know :)



my message, at 4:30:
hey there, ok here's my MSN, lets chat:

xxxxxxxxxx



Right now its 7:30, I haven't gotten back reply yet, so did I make some mistake or should I just keep my patience?

Should I do something? or just stay pat?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Canadien said:
Ok I will put messages in sequences, as they happened, with timing...


Her first mail...yesterday night...
I read your profile and I really enjoyed what I read :)

My profile isn't that interesting to read, I never really know what I should write.

I did find alot of things in your profile very interesting.I appreciate your values and I think we could have some really great coversations.

Take a look at my very tiny profile and let me know what you think :)

My message, at 12:00 today..
Hey there, how are you?

I got your message, and after looking at your profile, you have a way of telling a lot in a few words. Still, I'd like to learn more about you.



message from her, at 2:00 today...

Hey :)

what would you like to know :)



my message, at 4:30:
hey there, ok here's my MSN, lets chat:

xxxxxxxxxx



Right now its 7:30, I haven't gotten back reply yet, so did I make some mistake or should I just keep my patience?

Should I do something? or just stay pat?
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It's probably a dude. I wouldn't sweat it if you don't get a message back.
 
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but was

traffic said:
It's probably a dude. I wouldn't sweat it if you don't get a message back.
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it too aggresive asking her to join on MSN chat?

my friends at job told me that, it would be best to chat on MSN, that why I went that route, is there anyway to turn this around?
 
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