Ok was supposed to go out with this girl for the fourth time tonight. She called about a half hour ago which 2 hours before we were supposed to go out and more or less says she is not feeling well but asks if we could go out tommorow.
I am unsure of tommorow becuase I do have other things to do but none of them actually are important, so I just said well I don't know but I could be able to do something with her. She then said something of the nature "ok I will call you and let you know how I am feeling tommorow" and kinda rushed me off the phone.
Anyways, I waited like 10 mins and decided to ring her back, she apologized saying her mom was ringing herwhen we were on the phone earlier. I felt like she might have been pulling a fade becuase she is going away for a week on friday. I more or less said... Listen, I put some things aside on saturday because you wanted to hang out and I would like to continue to get to know you better. I know you don't feel well and your cancelling, thats fine, but I did have other things to do today as well. However, tommorow I do have stuff to do, I don't want to rearrange things although they are not important just everday ****, if you do not actually want to go out. She replies no she wants to go out and what not.
Now did I come off as needy in this situation. I was firm, I showed I think some balls by showing I was upset for the cancellation. I guess what I am asking is by more or less being upfront saying I have **** thats not important but I would rather do that than be stringed along work in my favor, or did I make a jerk of myself.
I am unsure of tommorow becuase I do have other things to do but none of them actually are important, so I just said well I don't know but I could be able to do something with her. She then said something of the nature "ok I will call you and let you know how I am feeling tommorow" and kinda rushed me off the phone.
Anyways, I waited like 10 mins and decided to ring her back, she apologized saying her mom was ringing herwhen we were on the phone earlier. I felt like she might have been pulling a fade becuase she is going away for a week on friday. I more or less said... Listen, I put some things aside on saturday because you wanted to hang out and I would like to continue to get to know you better. I know you don't feel well and your cancelling, thats fine, but I did have other things to do today as well. However, tommorow I do have stuff to do, I don't want to rearrange things although they are not important just everday ****, if you do not actually want to go out. She replies no she wants to go out and what not.
Now did I come off as needy in this situation. I was firm, I showed I think some balls by showing I was upset for the cancellation. I guess what I am asking is by more or less being upfront saying I have **** thats not important but I would rather do that than be stringed along work in my favor, or did I make a jerk of myself.