"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Did I make a good decision on this

Dhoulmagus

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I dumped my gf of 2 months last night because of implied cheating. She went out with her friend last night and they were dancing with dudes. I didn't care about that, we had agreed to meet up afterwards. We were at the same area, but she walked past me belligerent and just said hey. She ignored any of my requests to meetup so I gave her every nasty racial insult in my head and dumped her through text. She had a lot of red flags about her, so I was just enjoying the sex while it lasted. I assumed it would end this way because our first dates we were drunk in a club, she likes black guys, and her friends are basic sluts. I expected to end like this anyway and was honestly planning on doing it eventually. I deleted all contact with her so the only way for me to ever talk to her is if she initiates it. I feel humiliated because I knew this was bad move in general, but I let my dvck do the thinking.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dhoulmagus

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BraddH said:
The fact that you are asking that question means that it wasnt a good decision. You should have kept her as a fvck buddy just like she keeps you.
Ya, but im not fvcking after some thugs on welfare. You can call me racist/arrogant but I shouldn't even be competing against trash.
 
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