"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Did I make a good decision on this

Dhoulmagus

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I dumped my gf of 2 months last night because of implied cheating. She went out with her friend last night and they were dancing with dudes. I didn't care about that, we had agreed to meet up afterwards. We were at the same area, but she walked past me belligerent and just said hey. She ignored any of my requests to meetup so I gave her every nasty racial insult in my head and dumped her through text. She had a lot of red flags about her, so I was just enjoying the sex while it lasted. I assumed it would end this way because our first dates we were drunk in a club, she likes black guys, and her friends are basic sluts. I expected to end like this anyway and was honestly planning on doing it eventually. I deleted all contact with her so the only way for me to ever talk to her is if she initiates it. I feel humiliated because I knew this was bad move in general, but I let my dvck do the thinking.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BraddH said:
The fact that you are asking that question means that it wasnt a good decision. You should have kept her as a fvck buddy just like she keeps you.
Ya, but im not fvcking after some thugs on welfare. You can call me racist/arrogant but I shouldn't even be competing against trash.
 
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