"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Did i just get hit on?

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Anyway today was the first day of classes. Each person had to do a little intro about themselves...speak aloud.

so during break, out of nowhere this girl walks up to me and introduces herself. And asks if i know her friend Mary, she said somethin about her friend mary telling her about this guy Jack (me) from one of her other classes. Anyway im dumbfounded and say...no i dont think i know your friend, and you probably have the wrong person, this is my first semester at the uni.
and then not 1x but 3x she repeats herself and asks if im the guy her friend spoke of....and all those times i assured her i wasnt.

Then lecture begins, i begin to think...wait this chick just B.S.ed me making up a story. How can you say something like that after i said in my intro "this is my first semester here", i tell myself. i was amazed, in less than 2 mins, she's able to concoct that intriguing lie.

Then at the end of class, she came over to me again and chatted for a bit, somehow we ended up exchanging #'s.

Anyways girls suck at ice breakers. Whether this is a "hit on" or # exchange for class purposes, we'll have to see.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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that's definetly a come on...just come to show why girls always wait for us to do all the talking...i really think women or boring...i'm not gay or nothing but some can be a real buzzkill....

good job playa!!!
 

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She is dumb! Or you got hit on, or you got hit on by a dumb bird!
 

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girls dont have game,

what i mostly hear is um... do i know you from somewhere?, im like ***** step up your game(not aloud of course).

girls suck at pickups.
you got hit on bro something few guys experience, you lucky dog
 

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it's not just that their game is boring, sometimes it's ridiculous. this one girl went to the trouble of finding out what my hometown was (off of the internet), then one day came up to me and asked me if I was from there. I said "yes," a little surprised. She said, "yeah, b/c I think you told me that last time I met you." wtf? I'd never met her in my life. at least no AFC guy would be that bad.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yes, you just got hit on. Have a nice day. :)
 

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hahaha girls are hilarious when they try to tell a guy they like him and he hasnt made any moves on them. its like verbal diarrhea and they sound like an idiot most of the time unless they are really confident in themselves.

it is pretty easy to tell when a girl comes up to you and talks about YOU right off the bat in most cases that she is hitting on you in my experience.
 

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Originally posted by Alpha King
it's not just that their game is boring, sometimes it's ridiculous. this one girl went to the trouble of finding out what my hometown was (off of the internet), then one day came up to me and asked me if I was from there. I said "yes," a little surprised. She said, "yeah, b/c I think you told me that last time I met you." wtf? I'd never met her in my life. at least no AFC guy would be that bad.
ahah, intriguing lies! yea i agree even afcs wouldnt stoop to lying like that unless he was a psycho stalker...lets see a guy say that to a girl, she'd jump straight out hte window.

anyway weird, i just got off the phone with her. She called to ask about the project and seems confused about what to do. that i do believe cause she's foreign exchange...so english isnt her primary. Or is the lie so convincing, even i cant see through her? haha

in any case...i already forgot what she looks like, but i do remember she's a 5/6. ill refresh my memory tomorrow in class.

I doubt im gonna let this go anywhere, for the past year ONLY certain qualities in a girl attract me, qualities which are memorable. Hot girls dont appear to have any staggering affects on me. maybe im just fvcked up in the head.
 

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Yes, you got hit on, chicks are very bad at hitting on guys because they hardly ever do it.
 

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Hey, at least you can successfully identify that you were getting hit on. There was an archived thread about "most obvious come-ons" and some were obvious but were sadly not taken advantage of.

To share my story of shame, I had a girl at res who told me flat out she wanted to fvuk me straight up!!!! SHe hinted it the first time, then a second time (giving me the finger out of nowhere, signaling "****"), and lastly directly with words (Yeah let's fvck. I"m serious.") But sadly I was an afc, was self-concious, and probably was intimidated by her directness. :(

She was an HB7.5 IMHO, 5'7" with a slender frame. Most shockingly, she had a boyfriend at the time when she did this. :eek:

Maybe I'm more attractive than I think I am (despite some obvious flaws).:woo:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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