"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Did i just get hit on?

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Anyway today was the first day of classes. Each person had to do a little intro about themselves...speak aloud.

so during break, out of nowhere this girl walks up to me and introduces herself. And asks if i know her friend Mary, she said somethin about her friend mary telling her about this guy Jack (me) from one of her other classes. Anyway im dumbfounded and say...no i dont think i know your friend, and you probably have the wrong person, this is my first semester at the uni.
and then not 1x but 3x she repeats herself and asks if im the guy her friend spoke of....and all those times i assured her i wasnt.

Then lecture begins, i begin to think...wait this chick just B.S.ed me making up a story. How can you say something like that after i said in my intro "this is my first semester here", i tell myself. i was amazed, in less than 2 mins, she's able to concoct that intriguing lie.

Then at the end of class, she came over to me again and chatted for a bit, somehow we ended up exchanging #'s.

Anyways girls suck at ice breakers. Whether this is a "hit on" or # exchange for class purposes, we'll have to see.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MercutioTHEGREAT

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that's definetly a come on...just come to show why girls always wait for us to do all the talking...i really think women or boring...i'm not gay or nothing but some can be a real buzzkill....

good job playa!!!
 

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She is dumb! Or you got hit on, or you got hit on by a dumb bird!
 

skeeloo

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girls dont have game,

what i mostly hear is um... do i know you from somewhere?, im like ***** step up your game(not aloud of course).

girls suck at pickups.
you got hit on bro something few guys experience, you lucky dog
 

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it's not just that their game is boring, sometimes it's ridiculous. this one girl went to the trouble of finding out what my hometown was (off of the internet), then one day came up to me and asked me if I was from there. I said "yes," a little surprised. She said, "yeah, b/c I think you told me that last time I met you." wtf? I'd never met her in my life. at least no AFC guy would be that bad.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yes, you just got hit on. Have a nice day. :)
 

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hahaha girls are hilarious when they try to tell a guy they like him and he hasnt made any moves on them. its like verbal diarrhea and they sound like an idiot most of the time unless they are really confident in themselves.

it is pretty easy to tell when a girl comes up to you and talks about YOU right off the bat in most cases that she is hitting on you in my experience.
 

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Originally posted by Alpha King
it's not just that their game is boring, sometimes it's ridiculous. this one girl went to the trouble of finding out what my hometown was (off of the internet), then one day came up to me and asked me if I was from there. I said "yes," a little surprised. She said, "yeah, b/c I think you told me that last time I met you." wtf? I'd never met her in my life. at least no AFC guy would be that bad.
ahah, intriguing lies! yea i agree even afcs wouldnt stoop to lying like that unless he was a psycho stalker...lets see a guy say that to a girl, she'd jump straight out hte window.

anyway weird, i just got off the phone with her. She called to ask about the project and seems confused about what to do. that i do believe cause she's foreign exchange...so english isnt her primary. Or is the lie so convincing, even i cant see through her? haha

in any case...i already forgot what she looks like, but i do remember she's a 5/6. ill refresh my memory tomorrow in class.

I doubt im gonna let this go anywhere, for the past year ONLY certain qualities in a girl attract me, qualities which are memorable. Hot girls dont appear to have any staggering affects on me. maybe im just fvcked up in the head.
 

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Yes, you got hit on, chicks are very bad at hitting on guys because they hardly ever do it.
 

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Hey, at least you can successfully identify that you were getting hit on. There was an archived thread about "most obvious come-ons" and some were obvious but were sadly not taken advantage of.

To share my story of shame, I had a girl at res who told me flat out she wanted to fvuk me straight up!!!! SHe hinted it the first time, then a second time (giving me the finger out of nowhere, signaling "****"), and lastly directly with words (Yeah let's fvck. I"m serious.") But sadly I was an afc, was self-concious, and probably was intimidated by her directness. :(

She was an HB7.5 IMHO, 5'7" with a slender frame. Most shockingly, she had a boyfriend at the time when she did this. :eek:

Maybe I'm more attractive than I think I am (despite some obvious flaws).:woo:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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