"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Did I just get flaked on?

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Hot 37yo milf contacts me 1st on pof I get her number about a week ago. Send 1st text no reply(didnt ask a question tho) day of getting her number. Waited 4 days sent text, she responds right away, she starts texting a lot asking me questions. Tells me about some losers she's dated from pof. We go back and forth for about an hour, send pics(she asked) she seems interested, we agree to meet for a drink on sunday night. Says she will text me the next day, texts me the next day and tells me to text her on a different number than she gave me, I don't respond(thurs). Today(sat) she texts me asking if I got her other text. I respond that I've been busy and ask if she wants me texting her on the new number she gave me, she responds yes. 2 hours later, I send a text to the new number asking if we can push back the date to 8:45(we originally agreed to 8:30), I said I had a meeting I had to be at till 8. Her response "I will let you know tomorrow. I have a early Monday morning"

So on wednesday she agreed, actually suggested meeting on sunday evening. I ask to push it back by 15 minutes and her response is about an early morning monday.

I honestly did not have a meeting but was trying to test if we were still on for tomorrow. Did I just get flaked on? Should I respond to her last text?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I would tell her "its cool, I can just make other plans since you are unsure" and leave it on her.

Fvck that, she is weighing her options, send the message to try that BS with someone else
 

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Love your posts/threads but are you saying this because your steaming from getting flaked on by that pof chick from tonight?

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Just got hit up by a chick who is in my city only for the weekend. Asked if she wants to meet tonight, told me she's lying in her hotel bed exhausted but she'd be down for a drink tomorrow night. Looks like the first chick lost her spot(and possibly 2 dates tomorrow night)... :)
 

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sigma335 said:
Love your posts/threads but are you saying this because your steaming from getting flaked on by that pof chick from tonight?
Not at all, and not really upset cause I just pulled up to this other girls house...if the girl makes up some BS excuse tomorrow i will let her know she can make it up by cooking dinner for me at her place, if she refuses i will calmly let her know my position...I could care less, she missed out on a terrific fvck.

I just had a chick do the same thing to me a few weeks ago and I canceled on her. I don't play the "maybe" game...its either yes or no...maybe means she is not really that interested or wants to see what else comes along...
 

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Her response: "Yeah I don't think I can start a Sunday night that late with a 5am wake up on Monday"
5 min later Her: "Enjoy your weekend"
Me: "No worries... some of my days start at 6am. I have finals this week, so maybe we can get together after this week, when my schedule will open up."

Meanwhile another milf sent me her number and the out of town girl is telling me where she's staying...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sigma335 said:
Love your posts/threads but are you saying this because your steaming from getting flaked on by that pof chick from tonight?

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Sent your response

Edit:

Just got hit up by a chick who is in my city only for the weekend. Asked if she wants to meet tonight, told me she's lying in her hotel bed exhausted but she'd be down for a drink tomorrow night. Looks like the first chick lost her spot(and possibly 2 dates tomorrow night)... :)
Bro, I would message that chick "lying in her hotel bed" right NOW and offer to come over and give her a great massage to relieve all her stress...then fvck the living sh!t out of her after you get her turned on and horny...
 

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fuk man wish i wouldve read that 5 min ago ive been messaging the milf and the hotel girl at the same time. the milf is texting like crazy, eating up everything i'm texting her. she's sending like 3 texts to my 1.

i tried to go the 50 shades route with the hotel girl, but she had not read it(only said she's heard good things). wait, she just texted me she used to read eric jerome ****ey books which she loved. about to google him and throw something in about a giving her a massage.
 

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sigma335 said:
fuk man wish i wouldve read that 5 min ago ive been messaging the milf and the hotel girl at the same time. the milf is texting like crazy, eating up everything i'm texting her. she's sending like 3 texts to my 1.

i tried to go the 50 shades route with the hotel girl, but she had not read it(only said she's heard good things). wait, she just texted me she used to read eric jerome ****ey books which she loved. about to google him and throw something in about a giving her a massage.
So what ended up happening bro?
 

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So what ended up happening bro?
Florida girl went to bed after the last text. i sent her a playful text earlier this afternoon seeing what she was up to, she responded favorably and was shopping... hour later i asked if a certain time was good for her to meet at a bar a couple of blocks from where she's staying. She responds back a few hours later(i think she was still shopping) asking if we could meet a little later. I just responded back with asking if 9:45 works better, which is an hour and a half after I offered. As I'm typing this she responses "that sounds perfect!!!".

Things with the milf that started messaging me last night is going well. Her IL is very high, we sent a couple of pics last night, mine was a shirtless I had taken yesterday which she liked. She wanted to know if I had a "big package" for her, told her most definitely I do. She had told me that she had been on pof only a couple of weeks, met someone who turned out to be more of a friend(in other words not sexual enough imo). Her last text was "her reply, whatever you say big man" I think she's primed and ready. Was going to use her as a backup for tonight, if things fell thru with the florida chick since i don't know when the florida chick is leaving.

Other than that I got to do some studying I have 2 finals this week, then a nice break when I can get down with some of these chicks. I already am kinda seeing one girl from pof but she is really busy so just trying to line up some others in between studying. The florida chick was a nice bonus/surprise. Plan is to have a few drinks with her, keep the sexual vibe we've been having over texts, kino, and then get back to her room(if she is staying with other people in the hotel i guess i'll have to try to get her back to my place which is doable as well).

Also think I mentioned this already but I went the "50 shades" route with the Florida chick. The milf I made some sexual innuendos involving her being my early christmas gift from Santa and her being on Santa's naughty list and Santa put me in charge of disciplining her... she ate that up like ice cream.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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omega05 said:
so when does the smashing occur?
Stayed out late with that chick last night. Much needed night out for me let off some stress from studying so much. Anyway, the chick was cute and has a phat booty. Went to a few different bars, had her dancing that ass on me. She was staying with her mom in a shopping area. Omega me and you live in the same city so I'm sure you can figure out where I was. I live 20 minutes south of where she was staying, I wanted her to come back to my place, but she had a 10am flight, and I knew I wasn't about to drive her back so I didnt drive us back to my place. By the end of the night she was fingering herself in my car and getting me off at the same time. I drove to a secluded place and got a bj, she was talking dirty as fuk calling me daddy and other names, I told her that's my pvssy now and other things. She's a country midwestern girl and coming home from florida in a couple weeks told me she wants me to come see her and fuk her brains out then. That would be a couple hour drive for me so will do so.

Woke up and a different girl who stays in the suburbs and who I had used the "50 shades" lines on pof and other dirty lines thru texts, texted me this morning "Yea I have a dirty mind... And you have a lot of creative lines... Haha" Well, she's gonna get smashed too.
 

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Just got a text from the crazy milf who messaged me on pof... "Good morning happy mufreakin Monday. i think i like you b/c you don't stalk me... and have a hot bod lol. call me later so i can see if you've got a good voice too?"
Judging from the way she texts, I bet she is an absolute freak in bed. She's gonna get smashed too.
 
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