"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Did I just get AMOG'd?

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zekko said:
I'm calling bullsh!t on this. If this were so, why were you kissing later? Obviously you think she is attractive if you were "showing her off".


That's what I was saying. A girl, a bunch of guys, and alcohol? What do you think is going to happen? Instead of joining the other drunk guys, you should have ejected to a different venue.
Less showing her off than showing off to them that I wasn't bothered about the previous amoging.

Nah. On paper she's attractive. Tall, slim, intelligent but she's kind of a neurotic bunny boiler type. Kind of intense - which is bizarre cos that's what I get told by girls a lot.

I was kissing her to get over the amoging I just received and not to be outdone. But after she allowed him to do that to her it really turned me off her.

We just went out as a spur of the moment thing after work. It wasn't a date or anything. Had that guy not kissed her, I probably wouldn't have made a move on her either. Well I probably would have but it would have been drink induced only. Considering the trouble that kiss caused in getting her off my back later I am very glad we never slept together.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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OP, I'm serious when I say this, why don't you befriend the dude who macked on "your" girl and ask him in all honesty for some pointers?

I mean, to go from introduction to kissing within a few minutes is quite impressive. I say you dump your ego and learn some things from the guy.

Oh and don't get involved with co-workers.
 

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Yes. Ok. Will do.

In the meantime why don't you suck my fat one.

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