"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Did I just get AMOG'd?

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zekko said:
I'm calling bullsh!t on this. If this were so, why were you kissing later? Obviously you think she is attractive if you were "showing her off".


That's what I was saying. A girl, a bunch of guys, and alcohol? What do you think is going to happen? Instead of joining the other drunk guys, you should have ejected to a different venue.
Less showing her off than showing off to them that I wasn't bothered about the previous amoging.

Nah. On paper she's attractive. Tall, slim, intelligent but she's kind of a neurotic bunny boiler type. Kind of intense - which is bizarre cos that's what I get told by girls a lot.

I was kissing her to get over the amoging I just received and not to be outdone. But after she allowed him to do that to her it really turned me off her.

We just went out as a spur of the moment thing after work. It wasn't a date or anything. Had that guy not kissed her, I probably wouldn't have made a move on her either. Well I probably would have but it would have been drink induced only. Considering the trouble that kiss caused in getting her off my back later I am very glad we never slept together.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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OP, I'm serious when I say this, why don't you befriend the dude who macked on "your" girl and ask him in all honesty for some pointers?

I mean, to go from introduction to kissing within a few minutes is quite impressive. I say you dump your ego and learn some things from the guy.

Oh and don't get involved with co-workers.
 

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Yes. Ok. Will do.

In the meantime why don't you suck my fat one.

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