Did I handle this well

[OJN_98]

So I was supposed to get high with this chick in the morning, and we had set it up the night before. The morning comes and she flaked. While I wasn't the least bit mad, I also wasn't surprised. She wanted to kick it with me for awhile but I was either too busy with wrestling or wasn't in the mood. The difference is that I never set a time to chill until that moment, so I know I'm not at fault entirely.

She sees me in person and..
- She asks what happened, to which I respond that I texted her number to see where she's at
- She then acts dumbfounded saying "oh that was you!"
- In my mind, who else would text her around the time you were supposed to chill. (It was supposedly 7:10 AM)

My attitude remained neutral throughout the ordeal and confrontation.

Also, I ask if I handled it well because that was the first time I've been flaked on.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

She was just playing dumb. You can try chilling with her again, but if she flakes a second time ignore her from that point on. You did alright.

 

[EyeBRollin]

No, you didn't set a definite time and place. And she flaked.

She flaked. That means she's done. Find a new woman.

 

[OJN_98]

No, you didn't set a definite time and place. And she flaked.

She flaked. That means she's done. Find a new woman.

Yeah, I did. It was supposed to be 7:10 am in the parking lot and we'd leave from there.

 

[Desdinova]

So I was supposed to get high with this chick in the morning

What kind of a first date is that???

 

[Reykhel]

So I was supposed to get high with this chick in the morning, and we had set it up the night before. The morning comes and she flaked. While I wasn't the least bit mad, I also wasn't surprised. She wanted to kick it with me for awhile but I was either too busy with wrestling or wasn't in the mood. The difference is that I never set a time to chill until that moment, so I know I'm not at fault entirely.

She sees me in person and..
- She asks what happened, to which I respond that I texted her number to see where she's at
- She then acts dumbfounded saying "oh that was you!"
- In my mind, who else would text her around the time you were supposed to chill. (It was supposedly 7:10 AM)

My attitude remained neutral throughout the ordeal and confrontation.

Also, I ask if I handled it well because that was the first time I've been flaked on.

That's a really strange situation....

You were supposed to get "high" with a girl at "7.10 in the morning"....

Who the fvck arranges to get "high" with someone at that hour the morning. What drugs are you both on......

This situation is outside the spectrum of normal dating/game...

Two of you are druggies so it affects the situation:
You were supposed to hang with her but weren't in the mood........effects of drugs? mood swings...

She didn't recognize your text........because she's a druggy.

She flaked to meet you at 7.10am......can't rely on druggies.

 

[OJN_98]

That's a really strange situation....

You were supposed to get "high" with a girl at "7.10 in the morning"....

Who the fvck arranges to get "high" with someone at that hour the morning. What drugs are you both on......

This situation is outside the spectrum of normal dating/game...

Two of you are druggies so it affects the situation:
You were supposed to hang with her but weren't in the mood........effects of drugs? mood swings...

She didn't recognize your text........because she's a druggy.

She flaked to meet you at 7.10am......can't rely on druggies.

- No, I flat out did not feel like hanging with her at times.
- I'm not druggie, I do it sparsely if anything.
- We're in hs, so we planned on skipping 1st period. I'd be too busy afterschool that day.

 

[dude99]

So I was supposed to get high with this chick in the morning, and we had set it up the night before. The morning comes and she flaked. While I wasn't the least bit mad, I also wasn't surprised. She wanted to kick it with me for awhile but I was either too busy with wrestling or wasn't in the mood. The difference is that I never set a time to chill until that moment, so I know I'm not at fault entirely.

She sees me in person and..
- She asks what happened, to which I respond that I texted her number to see where she's at
- She then acts dumbfounded saying "oh that was you!"
- In my mind, who else would text her around the time you were supposed to chill. (It was supposedly 7:10 AM)

My attitude remained neutral throughout the ordeal and confrontation.

Also, I ask if I handled it well because that was the first time I've been flaked on.

"What happened? Oh that was you?"

Dude looks like this girl has already killed too many brain cells getting high.

 

[dude99]

OP she may have flaked on you because she was already high.

 

[wifehunter]

The only way to "handle" a woman is to walk away.

If you have to "handle her", you will have to do it again.

 

[sazc]

LMAO kids!

 

[Reykhel]

- No, I flat out did not feel like hanging with her at times.
- I'm not druggie, I do it sparsely if anything.
- We're in hs, so we planned on skipping 1st period. I'd be too busy afterschool that day.

Stay off the drugs, stop cutting class, work on your grades, do sports, join social clubs.....

Stick with the "winners", the folks that wish to progress...........

If you must insist on hanging with a pot head or a crack head at least do it on your downtime, like at the weekend......but still, the weekend
could be spent doing enjoyable things and with enjoyable people...

If you already "didn't feel like" hanging out with her, it sounds like a girl who is not really worth your time......so why spend time with someone
who you know is not worth your time..

Get your priorities in order. Little errors in judgement have the potential to add up.

 

[El Payaso]

Don't throw your life away over drugs and some less than interested girl.