"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Did I handle this right?

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I'm working this summer at a day camp for kids in elementary school. We were playing kickball this afternoon. The kids (of course) backed up, but I easily kicked it over their heads. Now since I was playing with the two best looking counselors (HB 7's), I decided to have a little fun. After I stepped on home plate, I went over to my team (all guys) and we all flexed, grunting, yelling- flaunting our sexuality in a sense. I got the few expected cracks about my muscles (they're small, put them away, you're embarrassing yourself, etc). This time I simply threw my head back and laughed, my team even joined in (they catch on pretty quickly). But then one of the other counselors looked at their watch, and the game was over. We were walking back from the kickball field when the two HB 7's got their kids to start chanting "Wim-py! Wim-py!" At me. I laughed again, flexed, and yelled "I can't hear you! My biceps are in the way!"

But later in the day, when we went back on the playground, I started playing soccer with some of the kids. Then the two HB 7's started got a crowd (of mostly girls) and started chanting wimpy at me again. This time I decided to ignore it.

The first time I felt like I did well- the biceps line got a smile from both of them. But the second time caught me off guard. I didn't want to use the biceps line again, and I was stumped of what to say- so I just stayed quiet.

What do you guys think? All critiques, comments and suggestions are welcome.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fun Story.

Did you handle it right? Handle what right? Sounds like all fun and games, some good ****s and giggles in there. What's to handle?
 

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The last time, when I was playing soccer. I apologize if my original post's kinda unclear, I was in a rush when I wrote it.

So what I'm basically asking- did I handle the last situation right by ignoring it? Could you guys give me another witty banter for next time (or another situation like this). All comment is welcome.
 

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DJDamage said:
Use a more direct game next time, using decoys such as children to gauge interest in women doesn't work well especially if you act like a clown.
I don't you think you understand me, DJDamage. Or maybe I was unclear. I wasn't doing anything with them at the time. I was just playing soccer (football), not paying any attention to them. The second time was totally unprovoked. They kinda caught me off guard.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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base2ball2boy2 said:
I don't you think you understand me, DJDamage. Or maybe I was unclear. I wasn't doing anything with them at the time. I was just playing soccer (football), not paying any attention to them. The second time was totally unprovoked. They kinda caught me off guard.
It doesn't matter at this point because everything is speculation. If you are interested in them Why don't you just be proactive and talk directly to the two chicks and gauge if they have a real interest in you?! isn't it what its all about after all?!

Take control of the situation.
 

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DJDamage said:
It doesn't matter at this point because everything is speculation. If you are interested in them Why don't you just be proactive and talk directly to the two chicks and gauge if they have a real interest in you?! isn't it what its all about after all?!
I'm not asking the n00b question of "does she like me?" because I think there is some base attraction. And anyways, attraction can be created. I'm just trying to gauge advice on the way I handled the situation, for further situations like this. I'm not worried if they like me or not- I just want to know if I played the second situation correctly. And if not (because I feel I did not), how can I handle it better?
 

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What the hell man? Of course those chicks like you. They wouldn't be teasing you. Just give them a smile like you want to see their panties inside out.

You can also find something about them you can playfully tease them about if you want to keep the joking going. Tell her her makeup looks funny today or something. But I wouldn't act like a total clown all the time, unless it's just really fun for you to do that. It's not really your job to entertain chicks.
 
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