"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

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Did I handle this in the right way?

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Ive been seeing this girl for a couple of months, and it was all going fine up until about a week before Christmas.

She had a xmas party with work and I was doing something unreleated. The entire time she was texting me pretty much begging me to come down and see her saying she misses me blah blah blah. So I went down and she ignores me. Then goes to sit one on one with her ex boyfriend at a table! I walked out and she accuses me of being a **** etc and I havent heard much from her since.

Fast forward to last night, and I decide to deactivate my facebook, mainly because I cant be bothered with it and wanted to see if I can handle not having one. I get a really moaney text message off her saying "YOuve Blocked me on facebook?! You really need to grow up" Obviously I hadn't blocked her so I just replied by saying "Ive actually deactivated it, but I really don't like being spoken to like that."

Now I actually quite liked this girl, but ever since the incident with her ex it seems like her interest level has just dropped. Wanted a bit of adv ice was I just getting used to make some other bloke jealous? Don't really know what to do next
 

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You handled it very well. Your actions and words have made it clear that you won't accept disrespect from her. However at the same time you hid your emotions well. Either she will come around or go around on the **** merry-go-round. You have made your move, now it's her turn to get on her knees and give you a make-up bj.

Don't worry about this because there wasn't a better way to handle disrespect and dropping IL.
 
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haha i never understand why women say you have blocked me, you need to grow up! a girl did this on my a few weeks ago
 
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I just dont get it haha I don't know if she'll get in contact again but I won't be getting in touch with her. Balls in her court really.
 
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Not only is she around her ex bf but she is sitting at a table with him. That's an automatic firing dog. Charge that disrespect to the game. She should have enough respect for you especially after months of dating. If she is doing this now then I wonder what she is done in the past.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The weird thing with that was she was BEGGING me to come down. Im not sure if it was just some game or shes not really over him and was trying to make him jealous? She put the seed of doubt in my mind that I over reacted by walking out but having thought about it a bit more I dont think I did
 
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