"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Did I handle this in the right way?

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Ive been seeing this girl for a couple of months, and it was all going fine up until about a week before Christmas.

She had a xmas party with work and I was doing something unreleated. The entire time she was texting me pretty much begging me to come down and see her saying she misses me blah blah blah. So I went down and she ignores me. Then goes to sit one on one with her ex boyfriend at a table! I walked out and she accuses me of being a **** etc and I havent heard much from her since.

Fast forward to last night, and I decide to deactivate my facebook, mainly because I cant be bothered with it and wanted to see if I can handle not having one. I get a really moaney text message off her saying "YOuve Blocked me on facebook?! You really need to grow up" Obviously I hadn't blocked her so I just replied by saying "Ive actually deactivated it, but I really don't like being spoken to like that."

Now I actually quite liked this girl, but ever since the incident with her ex it seems like her interest level has just dropped. Wanted a bit of adv ice was I just getting used to make some other bloke jealous? Don't really know what to do next
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You handled it very well. Your actions and words have made it clear that you won't accept disrespect from her. However at the same time you hid your emotions well. Either she will come around or go around on the **** merry-go-round. You have made your move, now it's her turn to get on her knees and give you a make-up bj.

Don't worry about this because there wasn't a better way to handle disrespect and dropping IL.
 
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haha i never understand why women say you have blocked me, you need to grow up! a girl did this on my a few weeks ago
 
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I just dont get it haha I don't know if she'll get in contact again but I won't be getting in touch with her. Balls in her court really.
 
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Not only is she around her ex bf but she is sitting at a table with him. That's an automatic firing dog. Charge that disrespect to the game. She should have enough respect for you especially after months of dating. If she is doing this now then I wonder what she is done in the past.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The weird thing with that was she was BEGGING me to come down. Im not sure if it was just some game or shes not really over him and was trying to make him jealous? She put the seed of doubt in my mind that I over reacted by walking out but having thought about it a bit more I dont think I did
 
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