Did I Handle This Correctly: GF needed ride home, was considering a boy

[Colinski282]

Okay so a little info before the convo. I have work today and my GF locked herself out of her house. So now she needs a ride home from school.

Me: So whos bringing you home?

Her: I have no idea, Ill find someone.

Me: Better not be no boy.

Her: Babe if i need a ride...

Me: Ill be pissed

Her: Im not riding the fuking bus

Me: There are girls, alot of em. Find One.

Her: No girls live near me

Me: O I think a girl from work needs a ride home.

Her: **** you Colin thats Bull****

Me: No what your telling me is bull****. I kno for a fact that u know a girl that would be nice enough to take u home. Find One, its not that hard.

Her:Colin Ima find a girl, I was just sayin

Convo Done

Okay so what i do know that after she gets home she will have to wait an hour for her mom to get home. I know if a boy brings her home he will see this and chill with her for that hour. My girl is hott and thats an open shot to any guy looking for an oppurtunity. He would already have the wrong idea about her riding home with her. Should I let her know about this part?

Did i leave anyhting out? Any Tips?

 

[Egoist]

we have a high school forum for sh!t like this, you know?

 

[Colinski282]

I do aplogize but this is not a HS situation. I am far from HS and this is a real issue

 

[Egoist]

i disagree shez, he was completely out of line, insecure, immature AFC.

its one thing to be protective, its another thing to be so blatantly insecure and controlling.

I am sure that unless he locks his girlfriend in the kitchen, she is going to have a lot of interactions with males. Being unsecure about it is a sure way to fall into the abyss of the AFC-ness.

Being protective is one thing, being jealous is another. Don't confuse the two. By demonstrating his unsecure jealousy, he is creating a very bad reality for himself and his girl. He is decreasing his value, and creating a "forbidden fruit" for his girl in her interaction with guys. Next time she is talking to a cute guy, you bet she is going to be thinking "haha, i am such a devious chick, i love being a bad girl"


Remember kids, in LTR - always playful, secure, alpha, always in control of that ass. She's your b!tch after all.

 

[speedo_meme]

.......So now she needs a ride home from school.
Her: Im not riding the fuking bus.......

You're not in high school huh? Who rides the fukking bus home from college?
Dumbass....

 

[Unregistered]

Maybe he's 36 years old and dating a 15 year old.

 

[The Juan and only]

You're not in high school huh? Who rides the fukking bus home from college?
Dumbass....

People who care about the environment, jackass. nah just kidding...

these lazy women who think they don't need a car (or a driving license) because they can always manipulate some guy into taking them places need to improve their attitude.

 

[ethnomethodologist]

You're not in high school huh? Who rides the fukking bus home from college?
Dumbass....

1:30 long bus ride... hmmm..

I had to consider $15 to drive, or 50cents to take the bus... damn, tough choice

 

[speedo_meme]

Who said anything about a 1:30 long ride? I don't see it. And he says she has to wait for her mom to get home. Sounds like high school to me.

Ethno, speak when spoken to, boy.

 

[Scrumtulescence]

You soud like an insecure b1tch. You can't forbid her from interacting with the entire male half of the population, and you're going to push her away doing this crap.

 

[Spook]

Speedo_meme: Lots of people take the bus when they're in college. It depends on the city you're in. I went to undergrad in Austin and there were VERY few people who didn't take the bus home.

Colinski: You sound like a girl. If you can't trust this girl to take a ride with someone to get home, why do you trust her to be your girlfriend? You were being insecure and it was very unbecoming.

 

[OrioleMagic]

Call a friend to try to get her a ride home. I wouldn't want my girlfriend getting a ride home from stranger either. And not because he might pick her up, but because there are a lot of crazy people out there.

 

[S1NN3R]

I am far from HS and this is a real issue

Coulda fooled me. You sound about like your average whiney HS kid. I could have sworn that most grown-ups have gotten over the stupid insecurity of their girls driving around with "boys".

To answer your specific question, you handled it like a child.

 

[applaya]

You are a complete idiot. Thats a great way to get your sorry ass dumped. Comon you don't trust her enough to take a ride with a guy or else she will hook up with him? If you can't trust her you shouldn't be with her in the first place. She prob resents you for not trusting her and acting like an insecure needy *****. If you played it cool and said "sure hun, just be careful" she would think that you were a good guy who trusted her and cared for her. Now she just thinks you are a jerk. BRAVO

 

[flexion_]

Move this to the high school forum.

 

[syemour]

Move this to the high school forum.

Touche.

 

[backbreaker]

if you aren't in a positition to give your GF a ride home, shut the **** up and let her catch a fvcking ride. you have no room to arguement.

If I didn't want me GF riding home from work with a guy at work or wherever the **** she was, I would come and pick her up.. otherwise, It doesn't matter if Iceberg Slim took her home, I can't say ****

 

[thederekeffect1]

I read your post wrong. What you did was even worse then I originally thought.

 

[James Bondage]

Yeah I'm afraid what you said to your GF reeked of immaturity and insecurity.

Its understandable that you don't want her getting a lift home with strange guys, especially if she's hot. But telling her that really isnt the right way to go about it.. her respect for you is gonna go down because she sees that your insecure and worried about her finding someone 'better'.

The best way to handle situations like this is act like you are OK with it (even if your not). This way the girl will view you as a confident person who doesn't get jealous and isn't desperately worried about her finding someone better (cos after all, your the BEST, right?!)

Anyways if you guys think THIS is pathetic, check this out. A girl at my work has a BF who won't allow her to even TALK to other men. Every day at breaktime she speaks to him on the phone, but if me or another guy goes to say hello to her she's like 'SSSSsssshhhh!' frantically waving her hands.

Apparently he is convinced she works in an all-female office, and she has told him 'if any man did join, she would either ignore him or leave'. And the worst part? She's about an HB5-6 in my book.

I mean, FFS......

 

[Soprano]

hahah i thought this was a joke thread until i read the replys