"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Did I F*** up?

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There is a girl that I got with awhile back, nothing fancy about a 5-6 that is in our group that we go out with all the time. I didnt get to nail her because I didnt have a condom on me back when it happend. Anyways one of my boys dated her for a couple weeks and he was just too "nice" for her.

She likes the dominate man, not the Im there at your beck and call man. Well she gets tanked lastnight and shes like I want to make out at the bar we are at. Well Im thinking my boys right here and I want too but I dont want him to get pissed. I also know I can get her back and nail the **** out of her but I dont. Well she ends up going to his house and I think they ****ed, not sure, he wont give it up due to his nice guy attitude. Did I **** up or do your boys come first?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well she went home with him. You were ok with him seeing her after you so I assume the vice versa is ok as well.

In general though, bros before hos... I'm just not sure this guy was a friend of your in the first place.
 
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Its his EX he has no right to get mad if u fu*k her. Secondly dont fu*k a drunk chick.

Ninja Out
 
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No he is a good friend of mine for the past 8 years. We all get on his case because hes so in love with her. Thats why I figured I would just leave it.
 
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Re: no matter what...

Originally posted by KillaPetehog
homies before hoes...
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+1

Not "unless she's one fine ass *****. " True friends are hard to fine. The question is are you willing to lose your friendship over this girl? If so go for it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NEVER give it up to a girl in spite of one of your friends.
As guys, we need to protect other guys from the bull**** that these woman toss our way. It's a harsh enough world with women out there trying to **** us up. Let's not make it any harder by pissing other guys off.

1) NEVER help a girl cheat on another guy.
2) NEVER do something with a girl that would piss off one of your friends.

Women are not worth the drama.
Bros before hoes. Always.
 
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man, listen to the pros who have already posted it.... always, always, put your boys first, unless she is one fine piece of ***
 
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