Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Did I F*** up?

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There is a girl that I got with awhile back, nothing fancy about a 5-6 that is in our group that we go out with all the time. I didnt get to nail her because I didnt have a condom on me back when it happend. Anyways one of my boys dated her for a couple weeks and he was just too "nice" for her.

She likes the dominate man, not the Im there at your beck and call man. Well she gets tanked lastnight and shes like I want to make out at the bar we are at. Well Im thinking my boys right here and I want too but I dont want him to get pissed. I also know I can get her back and nail the **** out of her but I dont. Well she ends up going to his house and I think they ****ed, not sure, he wont give it up due to his nice guy attitude. Did I **** up or do your boys come first?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well she went home with him. You were ok with him seeing her after you so I assume the vice versa is ok as well.

In general though, bros before hos... I'm just not sure this guy was a friend of your in the first place.
 

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Its his EX he has no right to get mad if u fu*k her. Secondly dont fu*k a drunk chick.

Ninja Out
 

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No he is a good friend of mine for the past 8 years. We all get on his case because hes so in love with her. Thats why I figured I would just leave it.
 

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Re: no matter what...

Originally posted by KillaPetehog
homies before hoes...


+1

Not "unless she's one fine ass *****. " True friends are hard to fine. The question is are you willing to lose your friendship over this girl? If so go for it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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NEVER give it up to a girl in spite of one of your friends.
As guys, we need to protect other guys from the bull**** that these woman toss our way. It's a harsh enough world with women out there trying to **** us up. Let's not make it any harder by pissing other guys off.

1) NEVER help a girl cheat on another guy.
2) NEVER do something with a girl that would piss off one of your friends.

Women are not worth the drama.
Bros before hoes. Always.
 

brenbaus

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man, listen to the pros who have already posted it.... always, always, put your boys first, unless she is one fine piece of ***
 
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