I was on the phone with a person I'm trying to get with about a week ago. From her tone of voice she sounded surprised, Happy, and kind of nervous about my phone call. We talked for about 6-7 min. (or maybe a bit less) and she seemed to be enjoying the conversation. Now.......... I cut her off and said I had to go. She asks "Why?" and I respond by saying "I need to make another phone call so I'll speak to you later". I eventually called back (about 4 days later) and she sounded like "oh it's just you". We spoke for a few min. more and she also cancelled our date. Also she said something to me (but I wasn't paying any mind to what she was saying. The Television volume was on too high) and said "I'm not that stupid. I knew it was you all the time". Now..... Several seconds later she says she needs to go because she has things to do and mentions that I should call her back the following day. She suddenly stutters and says......... "Know what... never mind. I'll call you back or I'll at least try and see you tomorrow". And makes up a few apparent lies after that. Now my question is did I just f**k up? Should I let her know of my awareness on this and apologize to her? Please let me know if this problem can easily be solved? Thanks aloy guys.
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Did I f**k up?
- Thread starter Adrian
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Tails
Senior Don Juan
uhh, again... she sounds like an idiot who is messin' with your head. just fuk her off. she sounds like a fukhead.
Tails
Senior Don Juan
haha, you funny man. good luck.
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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Apologize for what? Not staying on the phone? Her IL is obviously lower than you'd previously imagined...
Tails
Senior Don Juan
she sounds pretty immature to me. which is why she's a waste of time. but hey, don't listen to me. i'm sure she's a really nice girl, and you and her are made for each other right? that's why you're on here asking about it.
well... from this situation she seems to not have liked what my manner of getting off the phone. I came up with a stupid excuse to get off the phone and coincidently she does it to me the second time around. On top of that she states that she would call but never does. It's been around 3 days already that I've been waiting for her phone call. (andyes I know. It's a very AFCish thing to do) I guess tomorrow I'll just risk making a **** out of myself just to try and attempt at getting this problem cleared up.
Tails
Senior Don Juan
you see!? that there is just silly. too bad if she doesn't like it. you had to go (even if you made an excuse). now she's doing it to you? that's childish.
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F**k this. I don't seem to care for girls in the manner that I care for this one. why? I can't seem to be able to answer that but I do like her for the person that she is. Many girls just catch my attention solely based on their looks. Some of them are cool and look very nice also and if they show interest in me I'll more likely LJBF's them. I don't know how I've gotten this attracted to this girl but I'm assuming it would be best for me to make an attempt at clearing up this problem and risk making a real **** out of myself and also it should make me feel like shooting myself in the f***ing head everytime I think about in the near future.
Tails
Senior Don Juan
she's got you wrapped around her little childish finger. listen to you... sound as if you're married to her. fuken settle down.
Tails
Senior Don Juan
well we've all been in your shoes before. and it's not easy to forget about a girl we like. just try and keep yourself as busy as possible, that's the best way. go out with friends, have fun. do many things. get your mind off her for now. don't even fuken call this girl. if she is interested enough, she'll call back and apologize to YOU. she's the one being childish okay. just lay low with this girl for now.
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Tails
Senior Don Juan
no problem 