"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Did i dodge a bullet?

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ecko280 said:
There was no lie or cheating. I left because she would not have sex with me until she married because she thinks she had daemons in her. So she went to god and is only doing what the bible says. She did not want no "Open doors" for the devil to get inside her and destroy her. She also surfer from depression. so yea it was crazy, so i had to leave.
For Satan's sake, this woman is insane.

You did well on leaving her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Law 10: Infection: Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky
You can die from someone else's misery— emotional states are as infectious as diseases. You may feel you are helping the drowning man but you are only precipitating your own disaster. The unfortunate sometimes draw misfortune on themselves; they will also draw it on you. Associate with the happy and fortunate instead.
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She's crazy and has a lot of personal issues. Leave her alone, you will get nothing good out of this.
 

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My friend was dating a chick like this once. She had two ex-husbands one of whom went broke and the other killed himself because of all the crap she put them through.

The sexy, attractive ones are hard to get over though. OP should count himself lucky. Especially when they're religious nuts to boot.
 

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To squirrels, Kailex, and jophil28 :wave:

You three guys are the best. I respect and listen to everything you guys have to say. I love reading you guys respond on all the different topics on this forum.


Thanks everyone for all the feed back. I do not cheat or lie when i am in relationship with one girl. So right now i don't have any girls i am talking too. So time to start fresh. I do miss her, but i think it is because i don't have any girl right now. That will change this weekend.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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