"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Did i dodge a bullet?

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ecko280 said:
There was no lie or cheating. I left because she would not have sex with me until she married because she thinks she had daemons in her. So she went to god and is only doing what the bible says. She did not want no "Open doors" for the devil to get inside her and destroy her. She also surfer from depression. so yea it was crazy, so i had to leave.
For Satan's sake, this woman is insane.

You did well on leaving her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Law 10: Infection: Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky
You can die from someone else's misery— emotional states are as infectious as diseases. You may feel you are helping the drowning man but you are only precipitating your own disaster. The unfortunate sometimes draw misfortune on themselves; they will also draw it on you. Associate with the happy and fortunate instead.
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She's crazy and has a lot of personal issues. Leave her alone, you will get nothing good out of this.
 

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My friend was dating a chick like this once. She had two ex-husbands one of whom went broke and the other killed himself because of all the crap she put them through.

The sexy, attractive ones are hard to get over though. OP should count himself lucky. Especially when they're religious nuts to boot.
 

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To squirrels, Kailex, and jophil28 :wave:

You three guys are the best. I respect and listen to everything you guys have to say. I love reading you guys respond on all the different topics on this forum.


Thanks everyone for all the feed back. I do not cheat or lie when i am in relationship with one girl. So right now i don't have any girls i am talking too. So time to start fresh. I do miss her, but i think it is because i don't have any girl right now. That will change this weekend.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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