"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Did I do well here, I kept frame

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I'm temp working before I go into self employment.

I work with the public.

There was a 10/10 lady in her mid to late 20s, very attractive, well dressed.

I had to 'hold the public up'

This lady was then first in line and I had to hold the public up with others coming, waiting behind her.

She looked and ask me "can you do this, I've got to go"

I just said confidently "you've got to wait like the rest of them, it would be un fair on others, it's literally four minutes". I held frame and when she was standing next to me, I held frame, I wasn't even looking at her, I was looking at the other things.

I can also say, all the workers were looking at her.

I say this, it's easy to feel nervous and suck up to an attractive women, look at her, become nervous etc, as I have seen older men suck up to attractive women and do things for them.

I think for me, I'm well on my way to maybe being a man women may desire, find attractive and of course with a lot of inner, psychological work too.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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