"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Did I do well here, I kept frame

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I'm temp working before I go into self employment.

I work with the public.

There was a 10/10 lady in her mid to late 20s, very attractive, well dressed.

I had to 'hold the public up'

This lady was then first in line and I had to hold the public up with others coming, waiting behind her.

She looked and ask me "can you do this, I've got to go"

I just said confidently "you've got to wait like the rest of them, it would be un fair on others, it's literally four minutes". I held frame and when she was standing next to me, I held frame, I wasn't even looking at her, I was looking at the other things.

I can also say, all the workers were looking at her.

I say this, it's easy to feel nervous and suck up to an attractive women, look at her, become nervous etc, as I have seen older men suck up to attractive women and do things for them.

I think for me, I'm well on my way to maybe being a man women may desire, find attractive and of course with a lot of inner, psychological work too.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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