"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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nonjuanlearner

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Well my gf's been a bit off with me lately etc

Anyways i normally ring her so i text her and said "i'll ring you after the grand national."

so anyways 20 mins after the grand national ended i text "well i'll be nice and let you ring me "

did i do this situation right? i mean as in im i getting the hang of this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It depends how she's being a "bit off". If she's not in a good mood, then teasing and joking with her is the worst thing you can do. Also consider, she may be off with you for not being a gentleman, in which case it was a bad move.
 
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Don't play games, bro. Its not going to help your situation.
 
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