"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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did i do this right?

nonjuanlearner

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Well my gf's been a bit off with me lately etc

Anyways i normally ring her so i text her and said "i'll ring you after the grand national."

so anyways 20 mins after the grand national ended i text "well i'll be nice and let you ring me "

did i do this situation right? i mean as in im i getting the hang of this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jariel

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It depends how she's being a "bit off". If she's not in a good mood, then teasing and joking with her is the worst thing you can do. Also consider, she may be off with you for not being a gentleman, in which case it was a bad move.
 

Wiesman44

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Don't play games, bro. Its not going to help your situation.
 
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