deadmasterx
Senior Don Juan
These past days I've met a girl and we've been talking a lot. I usually try to limit our conversation to few replies during the day (when I'm not doing anything useful) and more intense chatting at night (maybe even a calling). Everything is going great, she's my kind of woman, smart, funny, black humour kind of girl, and smoking hot. I guess that's why I've been a bit blinded and doing some few mistakes that I'll later point. But let's proceed to the history.
Today we were talking, and after warming her up and saying some sexy stuff for her to listen (to the point she told me that she was already wet and wanted more) I said I was gonna call her at 9 to finish her off. She was doing some stuff and said sorry, but called me right away when she got free. We were having a good conversation, more to the playful side than to the sexy one, but both of us always flirtatious. When I came to approach deeper (my plan was making her *** there, like I did in our last call) she played hard to get. She's usually submissive enough to obey, but this time she decided to challenge my "authority". Turns out that the call was longer than expected, I didn't try to convince her of doing it (attaction is not a choice, you can't force yourself through a closed door) and told her "Alright, since you're not feeling like cumming like a good lil slut for me today, I'll be going to run".
Then she tried hard to make me stay, telling me she still wanted to chat and stuff, but I really felt that it was the breaking spot for 2 reasons: 1) we wouldn't sext, so there was no reason to keep it on; 2) the call was a bit longer than usual, so I was thinking about finishing it anyways. I was straight to the point and said that I had stuff to do because it was on my time, and since we weren't doing it there were no reason why to stay. She wanted me to stay so badly, tried to convince me with some lame reasons, but then she decided to "call" my challenge and say "okay, then you can go", and I went. I felt that it was a test to see if I was just bluffing pushing her against the wall to get what I want, but I just said "Alright babe, so sweet dreams, take care, we talk more tomorrow" and turned it off. Went for my run and when I came back home I realized that a few minutes after I went she sent me a really interesting picture of her saying "Some motivation for your running".
Even thought I got an interesting reaction after, and showed that I'm not just playing and I'll simply go if she's not giving me what I want, I am still in doubt if I did everything right. First because I was uncapable of going deeper on the sex call thing, which was my plan to begin with (since I was warming her up before that to keep it on), so I don't know if this testing came because of something I DID or if it was just a simple test to see if I'm still holding my frame and priorities. I've been giving her a bit too much of my time and I've been a bit too much playful as well. I think that it may take a bit away the seriousness of the chat, which is not really good if you're trying to sext or build attraction. Problem is that through the phone everything can be said and done, while if I were right in front of her I could have just start doing things with her and I'm sure she wouldn't resist at all. What do you guys think about it? Any tips of how could I have done it better?
Today we were talking, and after warming her up and saying some sexy stuff for her to listen (to the point she told me that she was already wet and wanted more) I said I was gonna call her at 9 to finish her off. She was doing some stuff and said sorry, but called me right away when she got free. We were having a good conversation, more to the playful side than to the sexy one, but both of us always flirtatious. When I came to approach deeper (my plan was making her *** there, like I did in our last call) she played hard to get. She's usually submissive enough to obey, but this time she decided to challenge my "authority". Turns out that the call was longer than expected, I didn't try to convince her of doing it (attaction is not a choice, you can't force yourself through a closed door) and told her "Alright, since you're not feeling like cumming like a good lil slut for me today, I'll be going to run".
Then she tried hard to make me stay, telling me she still wanted to chat and stuff, but I really felt that it was the breaking spot for 2 reasons: 1) we wouldn't sext, so there was no reason to keep it on; 2) the call was a bit longer than usual, so I was thinking about finishing it anyways. I was straight to the point and said that I had stuff to do because it was on my time, and since we weren't doing it there were no reason why to stay. She wanted me to stay so badly, tried to convince me with some lame reasons, but then she decided to "call" my challenge and say "okay, then you can go", and I went. I felt that it was a test to see if I was just bluffing pushing her against the wall to get what I want, but I just said "Alright babe, so sweet dreams, take care, we talk more tomorrow" and turned it off. Went for my run and when I came back home I realized that a few minutes after I went she sent me a really interesting picture of her saying "Some motivation for your running".
Even thought I got an interesting reaction after, and showed that I'm not just playing and I'll simply go if she's not giving me what I want, I am still in doubt if I did everything right. First because I was uncapable of going deeper on the sex call thing, which was my plan to begin with (since I was warming her up before that to keep it on), so I don't know if this testing came because of something I DID or if it was just a simple test to see if I'm still holding my frame and priorities. I've been giving her a bit too much of my time and I've been a bit too much playful as well. I think that it may take a bit away the seriousness of the chat, which is not really good if you're trying to sext or build attraction. Problem is that through the phone everything can be said and done, while if I were right in front of her I could have just start doing things with her and I'm sure she wouldn't resist at all. What do you guys think about it? Any tips of how could I have done it better?
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