"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Did I do the right thing?

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rapsta

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My girlfriend was out friday night. She met a guy. They talked. He asked her if she had a bf, she told him no.
Then she was flirting some more.
I asked her, what did u think? she responded that she didn't think of me that much.
She convinced me that all they did was TALK, but she still thought of it as cheating, so she felt bad and sorry for it. And she regret it.


So i told her she will get ONE chance.. and if she ever lie to me again, she can forget about me, it's over.
But still.. later on that evening after we spoke.. I called her on her cellphone and told her "there is no chance... i regret what i said.. it's over"
and I waited for a second, she was all silent.
Then i sent her an SMS.. "and dont EVER call me again please"

Now she didn't basically cheat, but she told me he treated her like a princess, he gave her his jacket in the cold even though he was sick ec etc.
It was cheating because she wanted to get with him in the future.

Or was it not? I thought it was real fake/slvtty of her.. did I do the right thing?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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biker_gixxer

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No, it wasn't the right thing to do, you should have told her it was over the second she told you. I can't believe you even 'thought' about giving her another chance bro.

My girlfriend was out friday night. She met a guy. They talked. He asked her if she had a bf, she told him no.

That's nothing less then a mental slap to the face.
 
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regardless, you ended it, so what are you worry about. you are now free.
get out there and enjoy that freedom, find another chick, there are plenty out there.
quit worrying about regrets and be sure in yourself and be confident you made the right decision
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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