"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Did I do the right thing?

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rapsta

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My girlfriend was out friday night. She met a guy. They talked. He asked her if she had a bf, she told him no.
Then she was flirting some more.
I asked her, what did u think? she responded that she didn't think of me that much.
She convinced me that all they did was TALK, but she still thought of it as cheating, so she felt bad and sorry for it. And she regret it.


So i told her she will get ONE chance.. and if she ever lie to me again, she can forget about me, it's over.
But still.. later on that evening after we spoke.. I called her on her cellphone and told her "there is no chance... i regret what i said.. it's over"
and I waited for a second, she was all silent.
Then i sent her an SMS.. "and dont EVER call me again please"

Now she didn't basically cheat, but she told me he treated her like a princess, he gave her his jacket in the cold even though he was sick ec etc.
It was cheating because she wanted to get with him in the future.

Or was it not? I thought it was real fake/slvtty of her.. did I do the right thing?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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biker_gixxer

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No, it wasn't the right thing to do, you should have told her it was over the second she told you. I can't believe you even 'thought' about giving her another chance bro.

My girlfriend was out friday night. She met a guy. They talked. He asked her if she had a bf, she told him no.

That's nothing less then a mental slap to the face.
 
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Spookey

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regardless, you ended it, so what are you worry about. you are now free.
get out there and enjoy that freedom, find another chick, there are plenty out there.
quit worrying about regrets and be sure in yourself and be confident you made the right decision
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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