"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Did i do the right thing?

groundzero

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Hey sup guys. I'm taking this night class, and there is this girl that sits across the room from me. After class she's walking down the hall keeps lookin back at me like she wants to have a conversation. I hesitated a bit and kept on walking, right when we got outside I had the balls to speak to her regarding class nothing more blah blah blah. Came to find out she's a friend of my friend what a small world. Walking toward her car she asked me if I wanted a ride to my car and I refused. I have a gf and thats what stopped me from getting the ride. Was she showing signs of interest or was it a friendly offer? Open to any suggestions. I don't want to go back to class next week feeling that I'm an *******.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Joe The Homophobe

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"Was she showing signs of interest or was it a friendly offer? Open to any suggestions. I don't want to go back to class next week feeling that I'm an *******."

she looks at you all the time + offers to give you a ride. If that is not an open invitation I don't know what is! when a girl offers you a ride you know she is interested.
 

DinoCassanova

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My two cents

How into your g/f are you? Are you prepared to cheat on her? If so, then I would bet that the pros would say you should begin to game her next time you're in class. From the sound of things, you'll number close her at the end of the next class. You do the whole walk and talk in the parking lot thing, and then you make your move with the number. That is, again, if you're interested in something on the side. So basically , sounds like you've got it nailed, just have to decide on your "comfort level" as far as the situation w/your g/f goes. ~D
 
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