"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Did i do the right thing?

groundzero

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Hey sup guys. I'm taking this night class, and there is this girl that sits across the room from me. After class she's walking down the hall keeps lookin back at me like she wants to have a conversation. I hesitated a bit and kept on walking, right when we got outside I had the balls to speak to her regarding class nothing more blah blah blah. Came to find out she's a friend of my friend what a small world. Walking toward her car she asked me if I wanted a ride to my car and I refused. I have a gf and thats what stopped me from getting the ride. Was she showing signs of interest or was it a friendly offer? Open to any suggestions. I don't want to go back to class next week feeling that I'm an *******.

Thanks!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Joe The Homophobe

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"Was she showing signs of interest or was it a friendly offer? Open to any suggestions. I don't want to go back to class next week feeling that I'm an *******."

she looks at you all the time + offers to give you a ride. If that is not an open invitation I don't know what is! when a girl offers you a ride you know she is interested.
 

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My two cents

How into your g/f are you? Are you prepared to cheat on her? If so, then I would bet that the pros would say you should begin to game her next time you're in class. From the sound of things, you'll number close her at the end of the next class. You do the whole walk and talk in the parking lot thing, and then you make your move with the number. That is, again, if you're interested in something on the side. So basically , sounds like you've got it nailed, just have to decide on your "comfort level" as far as the situation w/your g/f goes. ~D
 
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