"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Did i do the right thing?

groundzero

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Hey sup guys. I'm taking this night class, and there is this girl that sits across the room from me. After class she's walking down the hall keeps lookin back at me like she wants to have a conversation. I hesitated a bit and kept on walking, right when we got outside I had the balls to speak to her regarding class nothing more blah blah blah. Came to find out she's a friend of my friend what a small world. Walking toward her car she asked me if I wanted a ride to my car and I refused. I have a gf and thats what stopped me from getting the ride. Was she showing signs of interest or was it a friendly offer? Open to any suggestions. I don't want to go back to class next week feeling that I'm an *******.

Thanks!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Joe The Homophobe

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"Was she showing signs of interest or was it a friendly offer? Open to any suggestions. I don't want to go back to class next week feeling that I'm an *******."

she looks at you all the time + offers to give you a ride. If that is not an open invitation I don't know what is! when a girl offers you a ride you know she is interested.
 

DinoCassanova

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My two cents

How into your g/f are you? Are you prepared to cheat on her? If so, then I would bet that the pros would say you should begin to game her next time you're in class. From the sound of things, you'll number close her at the end of the next class. You do the whole walk and talk in the parking lot thing, and then you make your move with the number. That is, again, if you're interested in something on the side. So basically , sounds like you've got it nailed, just have to decide on your "comfort level" as far as the situation w/your g/f goes. ~D
 
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