"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Did I do the right thing?

Pantyr8er

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So, I walk in the mall and soon as I walk in a female AT&T Sales rep signals me to come over. I signal to her I already have a phone but she still signals me to come over so I do. Heres how the short convo went. The whole time I was smiling and she was smiling.

Her: How old are you?
Me: 23
She extends her hand and I extend mine.
Her: You should buy your girlfriend a phone.
Me: I don't have one.
Her: Who are you with.
Me: Sprint.
Her: Tell her to sprint her way back then.

Then as soon as she says that she turns around and goes to the opposite end of the kiosk. So I walk off saying to my self "I should have kept up the convo" but she turned her back to me and walked off so I didnt. So my first question is would you have still attempted to talk to her even though she turned her back and walked away from you? My other question is do you really take what female sales reps say seriously or do you think their main focus is to flirt with you to get you to buy their product.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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RogueWarrior

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Speaking from experience at having hired a friend who's a stereotypical beach blond w/ bubbly personality to be a booth bunny at a tradeshow, prospective sales magically appear. Geeks are all entranced by a pretty girl talking to them that they cough up their credit cards.

So, the thing to do is call them on their B.S. Say something C&F like "Are you trying to pick me up or are you trying to get me to spend money on a phone?"
 

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Originally posted by RogueWarrior
So, the thing to do is call them on their B.S. Say something C&F like "Are you trying to pick me up or are you trying to get me to spend money on a phone?"
I'd have asked her how long the average wait time was to speak to a customer care representitive. I've never gotten through in less than 10 minutes... oftentimes as many as 20. AT&T Wireless (now Cingular) is the worst of the worst... as I well know, having just ended my 2 year contract with them and switched to T-Mobile 4 months ago. Sure, what I would have said wouldn't have been C&F, it's just P&A. That is, Pissed & Angry. Hell, they're still sending me bills for $4-$6 that even the customer care people don't understand what they're for... then when they refund the charge, it comes back doubled. Grr...

By the way, Panty... she wasn't interested in you as anything more than a potential customer. When she found out she wasn't going to get your credit card, she cut her losses and walked away - continuing at that point would have had no purpose to it, for either of you.
 

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I love how AFCs in here assume that female serviceworkers actually see them as date material.

My friends are always like this and I just tell them "Ask them out!" and they always tell me.. Maybe I should go back (and in the process spending more money.)

A real man apart from a regular man would not be that gullible.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So, the thing to do is call them on their B.S. Say something C&F like "Are you trying to pick me up or are you trying to get me to spend money on a phone?"
Well said ;)

That last line she said was weird as hell. You should have been like "tell who to sprint back?" Haha :D

or could have been suave and said

"Naa she's long gone, but what about you ;) ? You're still here ;) "
 
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