Did I do the right thing breaking it off with this girl over text?

[gimmeyofonenumba]

After noticing a few red flags and low interest on her part I decided to go radio silence, didnt really think about her for a few days,she starts hitting me up with texts. We end up hanging out again per her invite, and she was just disrespectful while we were hanging out with a group of friends, and it was just a terrible evening, she did mention hanging out later. I offerred her to come by the next night which she didnt answer, but started texting me random pics of stuff(to get attention?) I call her out on her disrespect. She apologizes. Next day does something similar,and I finally just send her a text nicely stating we need to go our own seperate ways. Was this the correct thing? I feel frickin great, i feel like we couldve worked things out, but I have a life to live and cannot waste it with someone just being immature and disrespectful

 

[SmooveMooves]

Sure. you weren't feeling her, she was a b1tch, you broke it off. Good move, respect.

3 thumbs up, unicorns and rainbows now.

Personally, when I want to break up though, I just disappear.

Turn into casper. The woman gos crazy cause' she never gets closure.

No text

No call

No Facebook

Nada, I disappear off the face of her planet.

Her hamster self-destructs.

 

[Maximus Rex]

I call her out on her disrespect. She apologizes. Next day does something similar,and I finally just send her a text nicely stating we need to go our own seperate ways. Was this the correct thing? I feel frickin great, i feel like we couldve worked things out, but I have a life to live and cannot waste it with someone just being immature and disrespectful

 

[TheCWord]

I agree with Mr. Mooves. But what were you doing here?

After noticing a few red flags and low interest

We end up hanging out again per her invite, and she was just disrespectful while we were hanging out with a group of friends, and it was just a terrible evening

I offerred her to come by the next night

WTF? A girl who you had previously identified as low interest with red flags then disrespected you in front of other people and you agree to see her again? No wonder she didn't reply and just kept on with that pic texting stuff.

Good for you for ultimately breaking things off but, in the interest of bettering yourself, you've got to plug a couple holes in your game: 1. Trust your first instinct and cut bait when your spidey sense is tingling. 2. Resist the urge to have the last word. Go ghost like Mooves said.

 

[abe0]

A woman who is disrespectful and plays games like that is not worthy of you calling her or seeing her to break up. You did fine. Abe