eaglez1177
Master Don Juan
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Situation:
1. About a month ago I was at the fireworks with this chick, wasnt sure if she was into me, but didnt see her again till this past saturday when we were both drunk and hooked up (even when she sobered up im almost positive she was still def into me).
2. On that same saturday, before I hung out with that chick, I fvcked my ex-gf (also my f buddy), without knowing I was even going to be seeing the fireworks chick later.
3. Today at school, two of that chick's friends came to me and say "Did you hang out with Lauren this weekend?" I said, "Idk why", and they said, "Oh cuz we heard from someone that you did. (keep in mind they dont know I fvcked her, just that we hung out.
4. They found out from a close friend who checked my ex-gf's text messages and saw me in them.
The decision I made: I decided to be up front and honest with the fireworks chick. I figured she would find out eventually that I hung out with my ex gf that one saturday, and I figured that if she found out from someone else, she may get the wrong impression or just be mad that I never said anything and lied to her (cuz I told her and all her friends that my ex and I didnt hang out much and only talked every now and then).
Her response: She was pretty cool about it and said that she didnt really care that I hung out with my ex. She seemed to be okay with it, but I just wanted to show her that I was honest and sh*t. When I mentioned to her that I wanted to hang out with her again this weekend, and be sober so that I could get to know her better, she said she wanted to. The only definite bad part about the whole thing was that when I said goodbye (we were in the car), I gave her like a peck kiss on half of her lips. It was mad awkward, and I dont think she had intentions of kissing me.
Heres the big question:
What the fvck do I say to my ex gf now? Shes annoyed cuz shes getting the impression that im never gonna hang out with her again all cuz of someone reading her texts (and i think she may have an idea that I like this fireworks chick). The big problem is that I dont want to piss her off, cuz then she may say more sh*t in her anger and tell her friends that we didnt just "hang out" but that we "fvcked". If this fireworks chick found out that i fvcked my ex gf, I think my chances with her would be done.
1. About a month ago I was at the fireworks with this chick, wasnt sure if she was into me, but didnt see her again till this past saturday when we were both drunk and hooked up (even when she sobered up im almost positive she was still def into me).
2. On that same saturday, before I hung out with that chick, I fvcked my ex-gf (also my f buddy), without knowing I was even going to be seeing the fireworks chick later.
3. Today at school, two of that chick's friends came to me and say "Did you hang out with Lauren this weekend?" I said, "Idk why", and they said, "Oh cuz we heard from someone that you did. (keep in mind they dont know I fvcked her, just that we hung out.
4. They found out from a close friend who checked my ex-gf's text messages and saw me in them.
The decision I made: I decided to be up front and honest with the fireworks chick. I figured she would find out eventually that I hung out with my ex gf that one saturday, and I figured that if she found out from someone else, she may get the wrong impression or just be mad that I never said anything and lied to her (cuz I told her and all her friends that my ex and I didnt hang out much and only talked every now and then).
Her response: She was pretty cool about it and said that she didnt really care that I hung out with my ex. She seemed to be okay with it, but I just wanted to show her that I was honest and sh*t. When I mentioned to her that I wanted to hang out with her again this weekend, and be sober so that I could get to know her better, she said she wanted to. The only definite bad part about the whole thing was that when I said goodbye (we were in the car), I gave her like a peck kiss on half of her lips. It was mad awkward, and I dont think she had intentions of kissing me.
Heres the big question:
What the fvck do I say to my ex gf now? Shes annoyed cuz shes getting the impression that im never gonna hang out with her again all cuz of someone reading her texts (and i think she may have an idea that I like this fireworks chick). The big problem is that I dont want to piss her off, cuz then she may say more sh*t in her anger and tell her friends that we didnt just "hang out" but that we "fvcked". If this fireworks chick found out that i fvcked my ex gf, I think my chances with her would be done.