“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Basically, I've been working on this chick at my school. I've been doing c&f, accusing her of stalking me and staring at my butt, and everything like that. She never seemed to take it seriously and thought it was funny. She wasn't very talkative so I figured that she must be shy. So on monday I asked for her number. And for a few seconds after I asked for it and pulled out the pen and paper she just sat there, but then she wrote it down. But today we were in class (she sits a few seats ahead of me). And when she passed a paper to me I called her a pervert. And she got that stuck up revolted look on her face and asks me why i called her a pervert (this is not the first time I called her a pervert, just the first time that she reacted so rudely). She turned around before I could respond. But my question is why has she turned into a b*tch all of a sudden? Did I do something wrong, or is she just a weirdo? Either way I'm moving on, I just want to know if there's anything I should change.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ease up on the ****iness a little bit I'd say. You gotta be funny sometimes. make sure you have a smile on your face so that she knows you're kidding around. Find out wut works and wut doesn't, keep the stuff that works in your arsenal and discard the rest.

Calling a girl a pervert is coo every now and then, but don't like call her one in front of a crowd. Good job with the pen and pulling it out as soon as you asked, that's bible material put to good use right there. The bible has more tips on being C&F so check that out too
 

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you didn't do anything wrong.

sometimes girls just have bad days. it sounds like this was one such day. It also sounds like she hesitated before giving you her number, which is a bad sign.
 

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Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
Good job with the pen and pulling it out as soon as you asked, that's bible material put to good use right there. The bible has more tips on being C&F so check that out too
disagree. if it looks too planned it's kind of weird. make it casual and spur of the moment. get her number on a receipt or a scrap of paper that you have to rip off. or on the back of another girl's business card.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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