Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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did i do it right?

chandidas

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i came across this online flirting website :crackup: i know its bit AFCish but i gave it a go anyway, but the girls werent responding well:down:
so after 3 failed attempts, i messaged this HB8 to try my last and this is how it went (this site has pics)

me: man, ppl here don't know how to flirt
HB: wat?
me: you see, flirting is kinda like pingpong
HB: wat do u mean
me: u gotta return the serve to keep the game going
HB: ok, so u want me to talk dirty to u?
me: nah im not into that cyber sex ****
HB: interesting usualy guys like that sort of stuff
me: im not an average guy ;)
HB: lol your funny where you from
me: wow trying to stalk me now eh
HB: lol ya im a stalker, im from *****
me: oh that boring place lol, i live in &&&&& its like 30 min away :p
me: wat can u do for fun in *****
HB: i like to ^^^^, %%%% and ####, you?
me: i do wat cool people do
HB: lol cool ppl here usually drink and go out, do you?
me: lol maybe...wats ur name?
HB: my name is $$$$$
me: unique name...nice to meet u $$$$$
HB: ya its portuguese nice to meet u too, your name?
me: easy there im a confidential person lol
HB: hey i told you mine
me: ya lifes not fair ;)
HB: come on i wanna know your name
me: i will tell u if u gimme ur email or phone numba
HB: your a **** lol
me: take it or leave it
HB: fine my email is #########
me: cool..nice talking to u $$$$$ but i gotta go
HB: email me i wanna talk to u again

- then i logged off
did i do it right? i dont wanna hook up with her i jus wanna improve my skills:confused:
so feed back are welcome
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Docs

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Oh, you're ^^^, but you're a ***, but I 0000 you anyways.

LOL, why'd you edit so much crap out of that?
-Two, that wasn't really flirting, flirting is being playful with a touch of light sexual words/touch. You were instead trying to be ****y & funny. You didn't do too bad in the end, but you got flirting and C&F mixed up.

Understand the difference, and keep improving :)
 

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If she doesn't know your name, you're just another face in the crowd. Chances are, you'll email her a few days later and she won't remember who you are. On the other hand, if you email her a few hours after the convo, and give her your name, that's a different story.

"Some guy was talking to me over the net. I gave him my name and he wouldn't tell me his name until I gave him my email address. He signed off after he got my email address. Now there's some guy out there who knows who I am, who has my email address, but wants to make sure nobody can identify him. Creepy, no?"

Can anyone say "fits the profile"?

-Damian
 

DJ HOSSIX

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Your Conversation Is Lame.

I Agree With Damian, Your Juss Another Face In The Crowd To Her.
 

chandidas

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thanks guys (esp doc and damian)

i had to fix my thread coz my comp kept on screwing up..plus spelling mistakes

well this is not the whole convo, i did give her my name later on and jus talked about random stuff... (i have no intention of hooking up lol):rolleyes:

but you guys need to understand that i was just practicing convo..i believe best way to flirt is face to face, not over the phone or net:nono:

and DJ Hossix, i apprecicate your comment, but can you give me some tips by wat i could have done? my bad my convo was lame, so it woud be great if you could post some better examples
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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