"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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did i do it right?

chandidas

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i came across this online flirting website :crackup: i know its bit AFCish but i gave it a go anyway, but the girls werent responding well:down:
so after 3 failed attempts, i messaged this HB8 to try my last and this is how it went (this site has pics)

me: man, ppl here don't know how to flirt
HB: wat?
me: you see, flirting is kinda like pingpong
HB: wat do u mean
me: u gotta return the serve to keep the game going
HB: ok, so u want me to talk dirty to u?
me: nah im not into that cyber sex ****
HB: interesting usualy guys like that sort of stuff
me: im not an average guy ;)
HB: lol your funny where you from
me: wow trying to stalk me now eh
HB: lol ya im a stalker, im from *****
me: oh that boring place lol, i live in &&&&& its like 30 min away :p
me: wat can u do for fun in *****
HB: i like to ^^^^, %%%% and ####, you?
me: i do wat cool people do
HB: lol cool ppl here usually drink and go out, do you?
me: lol maybe...wats ur name?
HB: my name is $$$$$
me: unique name...nice to meet u $$$$$
HB: ya its portuguese nice to meet u too, your name?
me: easy there im a confidential person lol
HB: hey i told you mine
me: ya lifes not fair ;)
HB: come on i wanna know your name
me: i will tell u if u gimme ur email or phone numba
HB: your a **** lol
me: take it or leave it
HB: fine my email is #########
me: cool..nice talking to u $$$$$ but i gotta go
HB: email me i wanna talk to u again

- then i logged off
did i do it right? i dont wanna hook up with her i jus wanna improve my skills:confused:
so feed back are welcome
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Docs

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Oh, you're ^^^, but you're a ***, but I 0000 you anyways.

LOL, why'd you edit so much crap out of that?
-Two, that wasn't really flirting, flirting is being playful with a touch of light sexual words/touch. You were instead trying to be ****y & funny. You didn't do too bad in the end, but you got flirting and C&F mixed up.

Understand the difference, and keep improving :)
 

Damian

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If she doesn't know your name, you're just another face in the crowd. Chances are, you'll email her a few days later and she won't remember who you are. On the other hand, if you email her a few hours after the convo, and give her your name, that's a different story.

"Some guy was talking to me over the net. I gave him my name and he wouldn't tell me his name until I gave him my email address. He signed off after he got my email address. Now there's some guy out there who knows who I am, who has my email address, but wants to make sure nobody can identify him. Creepy, no?"

Can anyone say "fits the profile"?

-Damian
 

DJ HOSSIX

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Your Conversation Is Lame.

I Agree With Damian, Your Juss Another Face In The Crowd To Her.
 

chandidas

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thanks guys (esp doc and damian)

i had to fix my thread coz my comp kept on screwing up..plus spelling mistakes

well this is not the whole convo, i did give her my name later on and jus talked about random stuff... (i have no intention of hooking up lol):rolleyes:

but you guys need to understand that i was just practicing convo..i believe best way to flirt is face to face, not over the phone or net:nono:

and DJ Hossix, i apprecicate your comment, but can you give me some tips by wat i could have done? my bad my convo was lame, so it woud be great if you could post some better examples
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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