"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Did I deal with this AFC correctly?

Black Minx

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I have found in similar situations that the only response to this kind of behavior is a simple "I'm not interested.", if they continue to contact you the only thing you can say is "No means no.", and as already mentioned by a previous poster, please leave me alone. For some reason any other response seems to give them a reason to cling to you more.

In my opinion you dealt with the situation at hand, and thankfully you did get the message across. Overall I would attempt to be direct, but not harsh, as there is no point in rubbing salt in the wound.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Telos

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Summary of thread: Androgynous nerd girl rants defiantly about all of her exploits at agonizing length.
 

KontrollerX

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LMFAO @ Telos.

Yeah she does come across as a bit of a ball buster but I do think she is at least here to work on and improve herself unlike someother female posters on the site who are either here to troll or bask in drama.

I guess I also agree with the guy on page one that its not necessary to absolutely crush some dude's spirit who you are not vibing with. Just be direct and to the point and let that be that.
 

dannyegg4575

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This is a site for men/boys and we don't get women coming around here that often. so, I'll say,

"wow, a woman! We've heard so much about you!"
 
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