"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Did I deal with this AFC correctly?

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I have found in similar situations that the only response to this kind of behavior is a simple "I'm not interested.", if they continue to contact you the only thing you can say is "No means no.", and as already mentioned by a previous poster, please leave me alone. For some reason any other response seems to give them a reason to cling to you more.

In my opinion you dealt with the situation at hand, and thankfully you did get the message across. Overall I would attempt to be direct, but not harsh, as there is no point in rubbing salt in the wound.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Summary of thread: Androgynous nerd girl rants defiantly about all of her exploits at agonizing length.
 
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LMFAO @ Telos.

Yeah she does come across as a bit of a ball buster but I do think she is at least here to work on and improve herself unlike someother female posters on the site who are either here to troll or bask in drama.

I guess I also agree with the guy on page one that its not necessary to absolutely crush some dude's spirit who you are not vibing with. Just be direct and to the point and let that be that.
 
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This is a site for men/boys and we don't get women coming around here that often. so, I'll say,

"wow, a woman! We've heard so much about you!"
 
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