"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Did I deal with this AFC correctly?

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I have found in similar situations that the only response to this kind of behavior is a simple "I'm not interested.", if they continue to contact you the only thing you can say is "No means no.", and as already mentioned by a previous poster, please leave me alone. For some reason any other response seems to give them a reason to cling to you more.

In my opinion you dealt with the situation at hand, and thankfully you did get the message across. Overall I would attempt to be direct, but not harsh, as there is no point in rubbing salt in the wound.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Summary of thread: Androgynous nerd girl rants defiantly about all of her exploits at agonizing length.
 
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LMFAO @ Telos.

Yeah she does come across as a bit of a ball buster but I do think she is at least here to work on and improve herself unlike someother female posters on the site who are either here to troll or bask in drama.

I guess I also agree with the guy on page one that its not necessary to absolutely crush some dude's spirit who you are not vibing with. Just be direct and to the point and let that be that.
 
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This is a site for men/boys and we don't get women coming around here that often. so, I'll say,

"wow, a woman! We've heard so much about you!"
 
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