"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Did I Crash & Burn?

CanuckinSK

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Been conversing a bit with a woman I met on-line. My first contact was C&F and she responded very well in her e-mail (lots of LOL).

Tried a little more C&F in the next e-mail, and gave her my e-mail and phone # (didn't ask for hers). Received a response (which was friendly) saying she was too tired to talk more (she sent it at 3 am) but if I wanted to chat with her I could contact her. "******* at someplace where it's warm, if you get my drift".

The quotation is her comment, verbatim. I ASSUME 'someplace warm' would be Hotmail.com. Why would she give me her e-mail address in a bloody code? Testing my intelligence? She obviously seems to be playing it pretty cool... I really don't want to fVck this up, she's a very HB.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Phyzzle

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When you post your e-mail on an online forum, like here, webcrawlers pick it up and put it on spam lists.

Even "private" messages on match.com are surely scanned by match for email addys to be harvested and sold to the highest bidder, the lowest bidder, and every other bidder.

Welcome to the internet.
 

KontrollerX

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You meet her on some dating site or Myspace or something?
 
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